Sunday, January 11, 2009

"it takes backbone to lead the life you want"

I'm speechless. Revolutionary road is one of the best movies I've seen about life and it's mundane, boring, "hopeless emptiness". I had no idea I was in for such a treat when I got the ticket and now I just have to urge all of you to go watch it as soon as you can. The story doesn't sound so interesting when you read the movie synopsis but Sam Mendes has done a superb job (of course, owing to Richard Yates, the author of the original novel). The movie is about this young and supposedly perfect couple that live in the suburbs and lead a "normal" life. Until they realize how distant they've become from their dreams and everything suddenly falls apart.


All through the movie I found myself thinking about stupid compromises we make everyday in the name of "logic" and "sanity", but really it's all because we don't know what the hell we're supposed to get out of this life. Most of us don't have any real passion to pursue and so we stick to jobs we don't like and follow the rules we don't believe in until that magical moment we're supposed to suddenly find happiness. Well, I think we all know that happiness is not going to appear out of thin air, unless it's already within us. It's easy to blame everything on "responsibility", but as April Wheeler says in the movie: "it takes backbone to lead the life you want".

PS - Kate Winslet certainly deserves the Golden Globe for this movie.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Saba I guess I got your main point and it is interesting to think about it, but I still believe life is all about making (not necessarily stupid) compromises. Also, it is not surprising that "we don't know what the hell we're supposed to get out of this life" because it is difficult to define one except possibly for short-term.

Unknown said...

Totally agreed. It was a great movie! What's funny is it's the story of our lives and yet we still find it entertaining!(Isn't that sad?)

soudabeh said...

I was not sure if I wanna go watch this or not and now you gave me enough motivation :) ...As for compromises, I know some are needed in life and relationships, but how much really? I don't believe life is all about making compromises.

kimia said...

That movie rocked...