Commitment... that's the real issue...
There was a time when people told me they had commitment issues and I didn't quite get it. I mean, why wouldn't you wanna commit to someone who's warm and loving and cares about you?... now I know. Because you have COMMITMENT ISSUES!
you freak out when your partner/date/prospective date talks about future, cares too much about you, want to see you more than three times a week, and buys you gifts for no specific occasion. ... You start to feel less affections and more guilt. You keep wondering about that perfect partner who hasn't come your way yet, after all, you deserve more than this, right?... what if the "right" person's just around the corner? what if it's the girl you met last night in the party, or that guy in your class? you start getting anxious, you cheat, feel more guilty, get more anxious...
You end it... loneliness sucks at times, but it sure feels good to delay that critical decision just one more time...
11 comments:
:) well said, I was the victim of that type of issue.
r u the victim or the perpetrator?!
mmm, Salam Saba jan, nemidonam pingilish nevshtan inja jozve gonahaane kabire hesab beshe yaa na, avalan ke baba miss u ) va jaat khaali bood , dovoman ke ...midoni man hamishe fekr mikonam kheili tars va larz daare commitment val khoob ye vaghti ye goli ro baiad chid , age har goli ke hala be nazar khoob miaad ro bikhial shi , akharesh momkene be hich goli naresi va majboor shi baa ye BaOBaab ! doost beshi ;) nemidonam albate adame GOLI mesle to ! hatman entezarate GOLIATEsham kheili ziade ;) be har haal koli doostet darma bebakhshid age khozavelat shod :D take care.
Anonymous 1 and 2,
I'm a little bit of both :)
Pooya,
Tavalodet mobarak agha, man sharmande ke natoonestam biam. Merci az comment, baba sharmande nakon dige! :)
very well said; but, the commitment itself, and the feeling of being committed, is something very shiny, if one's ready for it. it'll happen to everyone, but not necessarily at the right time :)
The only person that you should make a commitment is yourself. Do not make commitment to anybody cuz that is the day you kill yourself.
:)
(It mmeans i've read it and I liked it but dunno what to say!!!)
brilliant, loved this post.
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That's me in the corner
That's me in the spotlight
Losing my religion
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(from Losing My Religion by R.E.M)
damn true....sad..but....
Have you seen "The Last Kiss"? It's an Italian movie with the same theme you're talking about here. Pretty interesting.
JJ,
I actually have seen that movie. Very interesting.
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